浪漫是很多女生都很喜歡的，所謂的浪漫，就是做出一些事情讓人感到意外、驚喜、窩心。浪漫的舉動有如在眾人面前大聲說我愛你，在生日送上一束花 (前提是你平常都沒有送花的習慣)，又或者在一間房間裡，用聖誕燈懸掛著交往時的照片，床上鋪滿玫瑰花瓣。
浪漫其實可以很簡單，只是在於你用心與不用心而已。有用心，就會把平淡無奇的日子，變得非常的有趣又有質感。一個由你親自下廚的燭光晚餐，一個夜晚的兩人漫步，一個談天說地的夜景約會，都是不需花大錢，裝凱子就可以做到的。
女生希望男生浪漫，感情才為堅定，不淪為平淡。藉由這篇文章，各位女生男生朋友們，分享一下你希望男生做些什麼浪漫的事情，男生們寫下你做過最浪漫的事情吧！
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Are you romantic?
Here's what people in London said:
Man 1: I'm not that romantic to be honest. The most romantic thing I've ever done is … have, like, a candlelit dinner for my friend, that's about it.
Woman 1: I think that the most romantic thing I did was like … was a letter I wrote to a guy I really liked and... it's the most romantic thing I have ever done.
Man 2: I'd like to think I am! I think the most romantic thing I've ever done is taken a girlfriend on arickshaw ride through London. With all the lights like flickering. She loved it actually.
Man 3: I'm not a romantic person at all! Sorry, is that bad?!
Let’s dig in!
In this interview, most of the interviewees are men. Only one of them is a woman. It seems that people would think that being romantic is a guy thing, not a girl thing. Girls are usually the ones who expect their lovers to do romantic things to them. However, guys tend to look at it not so important in a relationship.
Among the three guys, one of them had a candlelit dinner for his friend, not his girlfriend. It is kind of surprising that a guy would be romantic to a friend when he is not having a crush on the girl. Another guy took his girlfriend on a rickshaw ride in the city when the lights were flickering. I assume it happened during Christmas time so the trees were all decorated with neon lights. The last guy said that he was not romantic at all and wondered whether it is bad or not. What do you guys think?
The only woman who was interviewed said that she only wrote a love letter to a guy she liked. That was the most romantic thing she has done in her life. I guess, most of the time, she is the one treated romantically so there are not many chances to be romantic.
Word bank
To be honest 誠實; 這裡是指 “說實在的”
To be honest, I do not like to do exercises.
說實在的，我真的不喜歡做運動
Candlelit dinner 燭光晚餐
It is very romantic to have a candlelit dinner with your lover at the beach watching the sunset.
跟你所愛的人在海邊享受著燭光晚餐一起看日落真的是太浪漫了！
Rickshaw ride 三輪車/手拉車
Human rickshaw ride is quite fun, but the person who pulls the ride requires much strength.
人力拉車是還蠻好玩的，但是拉車的人需要用很大的力氣
Flickering 閃爍
Christmas lights flicker in the park and give people this warm hearted feeling in the snowy winter.
聖誕燈在公園裡閃爍不停，讓人在這個大雪漫漫的寒冬中，感到格外溫暖
Tell me about it...
What is the most romantic thing you have done to your lover?
Who is the most romantic person you have met in your life?
When did this romantic thing happen?
Where did this romantic thing take place?
Why do you think it is important to be romantic in a relationship?
How do you make your life romantic?
Now tell us what you think!
FYI
“Maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we've found each other... I know I've spent each life before this one searching for you. Not someone like you but you, for your soul and mine must always come together.”
也許，在這之前，我們已在千萬個前世中遇見彼此…我知道，我在每一段生命中，一直不斷的追尋你。我要找的，就是你，不是任何與你相似的人，為的就是希望你我心靈能夠永遠的在一起。
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
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