這個問題，我想大家應該都有經歷過，當你在喜歡一個人的時候，在剛開始曖昧時期，腦中就會時常浮現這樣的問題，想說，這個人到底是不是真的喜歡我呢? 到底有哪些地方可以看出來別人對你有沒有意思呢? 這是愛情萌發時，好玩又令人煩惱的部分。 當男女正在約會的時候，有些女生也許會認為，當男生不太主動的時候，就表示這個男生應該對自己沒有太大興趣，也因此，會漸漸開始疏遠對方。不過，其實有些男生就是比較被動點，所以，有時候是需要相處多一點時間才能真正了解對方心裡在想甚麼。有些男生會認為，當女生比較主動的時候，就表示這個女生對自己應該有意思，但是，一樣的，有些女生就是比較外向主動，他也許對每個男生都是這麼開放，這個時候，就很容易讓男生會錯意~
How can you tell if someone likes you?
What are the signs?
Here's what people in London said:
Apart from the redness in the cheeks, you can kinda tell in the body language I think, the body language is the main thing.
Friendly and has a big smile and sometimes you can just see in the eyes if people like you or not.
You just know, it's difficult to describe.I think you just feel the way they look at you, the way they smile but it's difficult to describe. You just know inside that's it.
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How can you tell if someone likes you? What are the signs?
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When you are dating someone, sometimes, it is very hard to tell whether he/she has the same feeling as you or not. There are signs to guess, but it is not always 100% correct. In the interview, people say that when you have redness in the cheeks, that means you are excited and shy when you see the person like you. Well, that may be the case sometimes, but not always. From body language, it may also give you some clues as well. For example, when the person tends to lean towards you closer when he/she is talking to you or when the person genuinely touches your face/hands, he/she may probably like you. Also, when you look into a person’s eyes while you are talking, that is always a good moment to find out whether he/she is into you or not. When a guy speaks to you in a way that is quite gentle and tender, it could be a sign. When a girl looks at you in a way that is admirable, it could also be another sign.
- Redness in the cheeks 臉頰紅潤害羞
She always has redness in the cheeks when she sees John.
- Kinda 這是kind of 的口語化縮寫，口頭上很常用到，當你不太確定一個事情的時候，就可以用kinda (有點像是…)
- Body language 肢體語言
His body language is kinda telling me that he is into me.
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