這個問題,我想大家應該都有經歷過,當你在喜歡一個人的時候,在剛開始曖昧時期,腦中就會時常浮現這樣的問題,想說,這個人到底是不是真的喜歡我呢? 到底有哪些地方可以看出來別人對你有沒有意思呢? 這是愛情萌發時,好玩又令人煩惱的部分。 當男女正在約會的時候,有些女生也許會認為,當男生不太主動的時候,就表示這個男生應該對自己沒有太大興趣,也因此,會漸漸開始疏遠對方。不過,其實有些男生就是比較被動點,所以,有時候是需要相處多一點時間才能真正了解對方心裡在想甚麼。有些男生會認為,當女生比較主動的時候,就表示這個女生對自己應該有意思,但是,一樣的,有些女生就是比較外向主動,他也許對每個男生都是這麼開放,這個時候,就很容易讓男生會錯意~

 

其實要去確切的定義有哪些徵兆是有點難的,因為,愛情是個很複雜又抽象的東西,有可能是當下的一個動作、一個眼神、一個肢體語言、甚至連講話的用詞、打電話問候的時間點、關心你的態度、約會時表現出來的感覺,都有可能可以去判斷說這個人到底喜不喜歡你。

 

文章網址:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learningenglish/general/expressenglish/2011/06/110623_ee_love_page.shtml




How can you tell if someone likes you?

What are the signs?

 

Here's what people in London said:

 

Apart from the redness in the cheeks, you can kinda tell in the body language I think, the body language is the main thing.

 

Friendly and has a big smile and sometimes you can just see in the eyes if people like you or not.

 

You just know, it's difficult to describe.I think you just feel the way they look at you, the way they smile but it's difficult to describe. You just know inside that's it.

 

Now tell us:

How can you tell if someone likes you? What are the signs?

 

Join the online conversation at http://bbc.in/kP78RD

 

Let’s dig in!

 



When you are dating someone, sometimes, it is very hard to tell whether he/she has the same feeling as you or not. There are signs to guess, but it is not always 100% correct. In the interview, people say that when you have redness in the cheeks, that means you are excited and shy when you see the person like you. Well, that may be the case sometimes, but not always. From body language, it may also give you some clues as well. For example, when the person tends to lean towards you closer when he/she is talking to you or when the person genuinely touches your face/hands, he/she may probably like you. Also, when you look into a person’s eyes while you are talking, that is always a good moment to find out whether he/she is into you or not. When a guy speaks to you in a way that is quite gentle and tender, it could be a sign. When a girl looks at you in a way that is admirable, it could also be another sign.

 

 

Word bank

 



  • Redness in the cheeks 臉頰紅潤害羞

She always has redness in the cheeks when she sees John.

他每次看到John的時候,臉上都會羞澀紅潤

 

  • Kinda 這是kind of 的口語化縮寫,口頭上很常用到,當你不太確定一個事情的時候,就可以用kinda (有點像是…)

 

  • Body language 肢體語言

His body language is kinda telling me that he is into me.

他的肢體語言有點像是在暗示我他對我有意思

 

Tell me about it…

 



What are the signs to tell whether or not the person like you?

Where do you usually go on the first date?

When you like someone, how often do you call them or whatapp them?

Who do you usually talk to for advice when you fall in love with someone?

How do you find out if the person likes you or not?

 

http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learningenglish/general/expressenglish/2011/06/110623_ee_love_page.shtml

 

FYI

 

Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.

有時候,你內心的悸動可以讓你看到眼睛看不見的那份心動

H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

 

 

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